Paul Wesley has dated models, actresses and several costars over the years.

The New Jersey native met his first wife, Torrey DeVitto, on the set of the 2008 horror film Killer Movie. The duo — who tied the knot in April 2011 — also appeared on the Vampire Diaries together from 2012 to 2013 during DeVitto’s stint as Dr. Meredith Fell.

“I’m just a very lucky guy — very lucky. I don’t know why she went for me, but somehow a girl liked me for longer than a month,” Wesley told Us Weekly of DeVitto at Spike TV’s Scream Awards in October 2011.

Despite the Guiding Light alum’s sweet statements, the duo split in July 2013 after two years of marriage. “They will continue to remain good friends,” reps for the two actors told Us at the time. That September, Us broke the news that Wesley had moved on with Vampire Diaries costar Phoebe Tonkin. The CW stars dated on and off for four years, calling it quits for good in October 2017.

Less than a year after his split from Tonkin, Wesley sparked dating rumors with Ines de Ramon in June 2018 when the two were spotted holding hands. The following February, the pair were seen wearing wedding bands. Another Vampire Diaries star — Nina Dobrev — ultimately confirmed that the director and the model had secretly tied the knot. Despite many relationship goals-worthy double dates with Dobrev and Shaun White, Wesley and de Ramon quietly separated in April 2022. He moved on with model Natalie Kuckenburg later that year.

Scroll through for a look back at Wesley’s dating history: