Content creator and model Sami Sheen detailed the "scary" non-consensual sexual encounters she has had with men that left her "traumatized."
Sami Sheen, 21, has made headlines in the past alongside her mother, Denise Richards, but this time, she used her platform to shed light on experiences that changed her forever.
Sami Sheen Says 'Scary' Non-Consensual Sexual Encounters With Men Have Made Her Close Off
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On Monday, January 5, Sheen spoke candidly to her 200,000+ TikTok followers about several "really scary" encounters she has had with men. "It's really scary, and it's not fun, and it makes me never wanna be intimate with another man ever again," she said. "I think they don't even realize what they're doing is not okay."
Sheen continued by explaining that she believes some men don't realize some of their actions in bed aren't OK. She then questioned why it's "second nature" for some men to slap, choke, or "shove their fingers ... or their d-ck inside of you" without asking for permission. "Why are we not asking for consent? What happened with that?" she asked.
Sami Sheen Says She's Experienced Frightening Encounters More Than Once
Sheen, who starred in Bravo's limited series "Denise Richards & Her Wild Things," admitted that she has had too many "traumatic" experiences with men that altered how she looks at sex. "It's really traumatic, and it's happened to me so many times. It'll be the sweetest guy ever, and then in bed, it's just — I'm terrified, and I'm not having fun," she said.
The OnlyFans creator said she has had to repeatedly set clear boundaries and expectations with romantic partners, telling them, "You can't do that. That's not OK, and I don't like that you need to ask me if that's OK." According to her, the encounters have been "really, really bad," leaving her "scared" of men and "literally traumatized."
Sami Sheen Has An Important Message Regarding Consent
Sheen did not stop there, however. The influencer went further, questioning how anyone could "want to hurt a woman like that." She then explained that the non-consensual encounters aren't appealing in the way some men think that they are. "Is it not sexy to them to be gentle with a woman? Like, why are we so violent? Why? What is hot about that?" she asked.
Sheen shared an important reminder elsewhere in her video. "Just ask, like, ‘Can I do this to you? Is that okay? Are you comfortable with this? Is this okay? Does this hurt?" she stated. And to ensure her message was loud and clear, she captioned the video, "Consent is sexy, let's start asking for it!!!"
Sheen Has Created Boundaries With Her OnlyFans
Sheen previously made waves in 2022 when she joined the subscription-based website OnlyFans. During an interview with "Next Gen: NYC" star Gia Giudice, Sheen opened up about her lucrative personal business, sharing that she also receives really wild requests from her subscribers.
"... they've requested weird things, like dipping my foot in the toilet. I'm like, 'Why does that turn you on? Is my foot going into a toilet? That's weird, but ok, why not,'" she said, adding, "I honestly do have really cute feet, so I don't blame them."
The reality star and influencer said there are a few things that she'd never venture into, though, such as a "sex tape" or "full, full, full nudity."
According to Sheen, keeping things "classy" while still giving her fans a show worth their money is her main goal. "... the other stuff that they've requested where I'm like, that is really just crossing a line, I'm like, 'There's other girls who will give you that. No judgment at all. It's just not my thing,'" she said.
Sheen Reveals Why She Turned To OnlyFans
During an interview with PEOPLE, Sheen explained that she decided to create an OnlyFans account after realizing she needed to earn more money to support her lifestyle. Sheen noted that she wanted to get an apartment in California, and working at a local candy shop wouldn't have been enough to pay the bills. "So, I went to the next best thing and made an OnlyFans," she said.
"It opened so many doors for me," she admitted, adding that she's met great people in the process and has also learned a lot about being a business owner. "... it's been really rewarding being my own boss and making my own hours and being able to do the things I've always wanted to do," she said.